When I talk about NVC, people often say it wouldn’t work with ….’. and then describe something they’ve mentally filed in the ‘impossible to change’ drawer. When I started out with NVC, I too was thinking about where it would ‘work’ But I soon realised that this came from a different mindset.
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I see myself as a reasonable person. I would describe my friends as reasonable people. I guess most of us would like to be seen as reasonable people. You too? Right. We’re all in the same boat. And so we’re all afflicted with the same curse – the curse of reasonableness.
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