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		<title>What stops us being empathic?</title>
		<link>http://talking-truly.com/talkingtrulyblog/2012/05/17/what-stops-us-being-empathic/</link>
		<comments>http://talking-truly.com/talkingtrulyblog/2012/05/17/what-stops-us-being-empathic/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 09:08:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jo McHale</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you seen the film 50/50? It’s loosely based on the real-life experience of its script-writer, Will Reiser, who had a rare form of spinal cancer that didn’t respond to chemotherapy and was eventually excised through surgery. The Guardian newspaper critic was dismissive: ‘Charmless, shallow, smug and unlikeable. A ‘bromance’ weepie about cancer’ he said. ‘One [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Be careful how you ask for what you want</title>
		<link>http://talking-truly.com/talkingtrulyblog/2012/02/21/be-careful-how-you-ask-for-what-you-want/</link>
		<comments>http://talking-truly.com/talkingtrulyblog/2012/02/21/be-careful-how-you-ask-for-what-you-want/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Feb 2012 18:23:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jo McHale</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Oops! What a bloomer! But I can imagine how it happened! And there&#8217;s a useful lesson here in how to ask for what you want. The person painting the warnings would most probably say that he was following instructions to the letter. (Well&#8230; almost. I don&#8217;t know how Arbic slipped in.) The same might be said [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Do hackers have hearts?</title>
		<link>http://talking-truly.com/talkingtrulyblog/2011/12/15/do-hackers-have-hearts/</link>
		<comments>http://talking-truly.com/talkingtrulyblog/2011/12/15/do-hackers-have-hearts/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Dec 2011 17:31:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jo McHale</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://talking-truly.com/talkingtrulyblog/?p=117</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[If my computer was hacked, what would I do? Get angry? Yes! Despair that anyone would choose to inflict such damage? Yes! Curse? Yes, in no uncertain terms! But engage in a dialogue with the hacker? Surely not. Who would take up that challenge? And what would happen if they did? Here are two examples [...]]]></description>
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		<title>If you lost an arm and an eye, would you feel bitter towards your attacker?</title>
		<link>http://talking-truly.com/talkingtrulyblog/2011/10/06/if-you-lost-and-arm-and-an-eye-would-you-feel-bitter-towards-your-attacker/</link>
		<comments>http://talking-truly.com/talkingtrulyblog/2011/10/06/if-you-lost-and-arm-and-an-eye-would-you-feel-bitter-towards-your-attacker/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Oct 2011 17:14:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jo McHale</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://talking-truly.com/talkingtrulyblog/?p=106</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[It was a sunny day. I was in a sunny mood. Ahead lay a country walk with a sociable pack of dogs and their owners. The voices on the car radio were background noise – until something caught my attention. ‘I couldn’t hate. I wanted to but I couldn’t.’ The speaker was Albie Sachs, the [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What we attend to will grow</title>
		<link>http://talking-truly.com/talkingtrulyblog/2011/09/07/the-power-of-attention/</link>
		<comments>http://talking-truly.com/talkingtrulyblog/2011/09/07/the-power-of-attention/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Sep 2011 16:51:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jo McHale</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A little boy snuggled into the safety of his grandfather’s arms and waited. The old man looked fondly at his grandson. Then he began to speak, choosing his words with care. &#8220;Sometimes it’s as though I have two wolves fighting in my heart. One wolf is vengeful, angry and violent. The other wolf is the [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What do you say to someone who’s just suffered a bereavement?</title>
		<link>http://talking-truly.com/talkingtrulyblog/2011/09/06/99/</link>
		<comments>http://talking-truly.com/talkingtrulyblog/2011/09/06/99/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Sep 2011 11:08:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jo McHale</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Awkward situations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I was moved by this quote in the Guardian newspaper (6th September 2011) from a young man whose father died in the 9/11 tragedy. (On the day) “… a friend came in and asked me what I&#8217;d like to do more than anything. I said I wanted to play soccer, so that&#8217;s what we did, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What does it mean to &#8216;speak your truth&#8217;?</title>
		<link>http://talking-truly.com/talkingtrulyblog/2011/05/24/truth-comes-from-the-heart-not-from-the-head/</link>
		<comments>http://talking-truly.com/talkingtrulyblog/2011/05/24/truth-comes-from-the-heart-not-from-the-head/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 May 2011 21:46:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jo McHale</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Speak from the heart]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[‘Speak your truth’ our presenter said. ‘Let it come from the heart, without filtering.’ Fifteen of us – coaches of every persuasion – listened and reflected. ‘I’m not entirely happy with that’ I said. ‘There are things I would want to filter.’ And a domestic analogy popped into my mind. It was like sieving stewed [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Nonviolent Communication: Does it work?</title>
		<link>http://talking-truly.com/talkingtrulyblog/2010/08/12/nonviolent-communication-does-it-work/</link>
		<comments>http://talking-truly.com/talkingtrulyblog/2010/08/12/nonviolent-communication-does-it-work/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Aug 2010 09:31:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jo McHale</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Must read]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://talking-truly.com/talkingtrulyblog/?p=69</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[When I talk about NVC, people often say  it wouldn&#8217;t work with &#8230;.&#8217;. and then describe something they&#8217;ve mentally filed in the &#8216;impossible to change&#8217; drawer. When I started out with NVC, I too was thinking about where it would &#8216;work&#8217;  But I soon realised that this came from a different mindset. It was a mindset very different [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What can we learn from Gordon Brown?</title>
		<link>http://talking-truly.com/talkingtrulyblog/2010/05/05/what-can-we-learn-from-gordon-brown/</link>
		<comments>http://talking-truly.com/talkingtrulyblog/2010/05/05/what-can-we-learn-from-gordon-brown/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 May 2010 15:36:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jo McHale</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[NVC and UK election]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Vulnerability,]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://talking-truly.com/talkingtrulyblog/?p=53</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[What has an embattled prime minister, fighting for his political life, got to teach you and me? On Monday, 4th May 2010, Gordon Brown found his voice. He gave the most impassioned speech of his election campaign so far. Suddenly he looked and sounded a different man – a man with heart and convictions – [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t be reasonable! Try Nonviolent Communication instead</title>
		<link>http://talking-truly.com/talkingtrulyblog/2010/02/07/dont-be-reasonable/</link>
		<comments>http://talking-truly.com/talkingtrulyblog/2010/02/07/dont-be-reasonable/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Feb 2010 18:12:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jo McHale</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Awkward situations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Must read]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Judgements,]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Nonviolent Communication,]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Reasonableness,]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Trust,]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I see myself as a reasonable person. I would describe my friends as reasonable people. I guess most of us would like to be seen as reasonable people. You too? Right. We&#8217;re all in the same boat. And so we&#8217;re all afflicted with the same curse &#8211; the curse of reasonableness. But isn&#8217;t this &#8216;a good [...]]]></description>
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